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About Me
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I’m a therapist who believes we’re wired for relationship — even when trauma, shame, or life itself makes that feel impossible.


At Unbound Phoenix Therapy, I help individuals, couples, and families untangle old patterns, rebuild trust, and create relationships that actually feel safe.

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My style? Creative, trauma-informed, and real.
I blend IFS-informed EMDR, emotionally-focused work, DBT, and expressive arts to help you find your way back to yourself and the people who matter most.

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It’s equal parts grit, grace, and a little gallows humor — because healing’s hard, but it doesn’t have to be lonely.

Unbound Phoenix Therapy is a trauma-informed, LGBTQ-affirming therapy practice in Virginia. I provide therapy for adults, teens, children, couples, and families, specializing in complex trauma, neurodivergence, and relationship healing. Services are offered in-person in Northern Virginia and via telehealth across Virginia.

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Meet Nicki

My Story

Born to Haul Band-Aids and Hope

 

I was that kid who couldn’t walk past a scraped knee or a broken friendship.
My mom kept bulk boxes of Band-Aids because I believed no one should hurt alone.
That “patch-it-up” instinct became the heartbeat of Unbound Phoenix Therapy — a space built on the belief that healing happens through relationship.

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If the Map Didn’t Exist, I Drew One

 

Creativity has always been my way of staying connected when life got messy.
From launching a middle-school newspaper to studying social justice in India, I’ve always created the map when none existed.
Now, I help individuals, couples, and families do the same — sketching new routes toward understanding, repair, and belonging.

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A Map-Maker for Healing (and Relating)

 

Most people who find me are stuck in cycles that keep love just out of reach —
partners feeling distant, families repeating old wounds, or individuals who’ve learned to protect rather than connect.

I specialize in trauma-informed relationship work for:

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  • Partners and families healing from disconnection or conflict

  • Adults navigating complex PTSD and attachment wounds

  • Neurodivergent or “neurospicy” folks trying to make relationships work in a world that often doesn’t fit

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Together, we’ll build therapy around you — not a textbook version of who you “should” be.
My approach blends IFS-informed EMDR, emotionally-focused connection work, DBT skills, body-trust, sand-tray, and expressive arts to help you (and your people) find steady ground again.

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I Walk the Walk

 

Every tool I use, I’ve lived.
I know how hard it is to show up, to rebuild trust, and to believe connection is still possible.
That’s why I meet clients as partners in the process — not projects to be fixed.

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Why I Love This Work

 

Watching people who once thought they were “too broken” or “too far gone” start finding their way back — to themselves and to each other — is my favorite kind of magic.
It takes grit, grace, and a little gallows humor, and honestly, that’s my vibe too.

My Approach in a Nutshell

  • Creative & flexible: if it doesn’t work for your brain, we’ll invent something that does.

  • Collaborative: you steer the ship; I bring maps, snacks, and trauma-informed navigation.

  • Evidence-based & experiential: EMDR • IFS-informed parts work • Emotionally-Focused Therapy • DBT • body-trust practices • sand-tray & expressive-arts.

  • Affirming: LGBTQ+, neurodiverse, ENM, kink-aware, body-neutral-to-positive, trauma-savvy.

  • Human & witty: therapy can be deeply serious without being painfully stiff.

Unbound Phoenix Therapy

Nichole “Nicki” Venable, LPC (she/her)

Advanced training in Relational and Trauma therapy for individuals, couples and families of all ages.

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Specialty in working with polyamorous, kinky, fat, neurodiverse, and LGBTQIA+ populations.

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nichole@unboundphoenixtherapy.com

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703-241-4559

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© 2025 Unbound Phoenix Therapy. All rights reserved.

In Person Location: Herndon, VA

Virtual sessions: throughout VA

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Hours:
Mon: 12 PM - 8:30 PM

Tue & Wed: 9 AM – 4 PM


Rise Unbound. Live Unapologetically.


A safe, non-judgmental, sex-positive space to explore yourself and your relationships.

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